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孩子害怕失敗?三大對策應(yīng)對“輸?shù)闷稹保?/h1>

來源:好上學(xué) ??時間:2023-07-21

高考是一個是一場千軍萬馬過獨(dú)木橋的戰(zhàn)役。面對高考,考生總是有很多困惑,什么時候開始報名?高考體檢對報考專業(yè)有什么影響?什么時候填報志愿?怎么填報志愿?等等,為了幫助考生解惑,好上學(xué)整理了孩子害怕失???三大對策應(yīng)對“輸?shù)闷稹?!相關(guān)信息,供考生參考,一起來看一下吧
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					<p>曾經(jīng)和一個2歲多的寶寶玩紙貼,當(dāng)時她對物品的觀察和理解能力都還不錯,但手指配合的精細(xì)能力還有點(diǎn)不夠,所以圖片貼的位置總不夠精準(zhǔn),比如超過邊框啦、位置不正啦等,剛開始我會很輕聲地提醒建議她是不是要挪一挪重新貼一下,而她馬上就會心生退怯朝我招呼:“阿姨貼,不貼了!”然后她就把貼紙塞到我手里不再動作。</p>
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					<p style="line-height: 25.6px;">我意識到她對評價比較敏感,我的建議在她那里被理解成了否定,打擊到她的小自尊了,所以,為了避免再次失敗而被我“建議”,她干脆不玩了。于是我馬上調(diào)整自己,降低對她的要求,貼得正不正不重要,只要她能找到正確的位置,盡量鼓勵她自己去貼,貼成怎樣我都不再評價,只是告訴她:“不錯,我們接著來!”</p>
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					<p style="line-height: 25.6px;">等她貼了幾個心情好點(diǎn)之后,我試著慢慢告訴她貼紙的基本原則:不能壓住旁邊的字或畫,不能超出畫好的邊界線。又貼了幾個之后,她開始進(jìn)入自我感覺良好的陶醉狀態(tài),一邊貼一邊自言自語:“不能壓住哦,不能超出邊界哦!”最后一口氣貼了半個小時,完成了4個故事的拼圖作品,并且從此對貼紙的熱情不減。</p>
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		<p>這只是一個個案,不過在平時的家庭教育培訓(xùn)和咨詢輔導(dǎo)中,我經(jīng)常接到不少父母的反饋,說自己的孩子“輸不起”、“害怕失敗”,遇到一點(diǎn)失敗就備受打擊消沉不已,或者是因?yàn)楹ε率《纱嗵颖芾щy和挑戰(zhàn)。</p>
		<p style="text-align: center;">其實(shí),這種現(xiàn)象并沒我們大人想象的那么嚴(yán)重,這只是孩子在面對壓力時表現(xiàn)出的一種本能的應(yīng)激反應(yīng),從某種意義上來說,是有一定的<strong style="font-size: 16px;">自我保護(hù)和<strong style="font-size: 16px;">調(diào)整價值的。</p>
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		<p>孩子為什么會不愿面對失敗、害怕失敗?如何才能幫助孩子更健康積極地面對失敗、培養(yǎng)“輸?shù)闷稹钡暮⒆??下面我從三個角度逐一來剖析其中的原因及對策。</p>
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					<p class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" style="line-height: 22px; font-size: 18px;">原因一:對失敗的認(rèn)識不夠客觀全面</p>
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		<p>過于結(jié)果導(dǎo)向,不懂得享受過程,錯誤地認(rèn)為失敗沒有任何收獲與價值,認(rèn)為一次失敗就是全盤皆錯、就是“整個人都不好了”,進(jìn)而錯誤地否定自己。</p>
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							<p>對策:引導(dǎo)孩子建立正向思維。</p>
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		<p>幫助孩子學(xué)會看到事情的好的一面:正因?yàn)樗ち艘货樱覀儾艜麓闻Σ辉偎樱?,失敗讓我們有機(jī)會去反思和成長,收獲寶貴的經(jīng)驗(yàn)和教訓(xùn);這次失敗了,并不代表我們就是個“失敗的孩子”,只是因?yàn)槲覀兙毩?xí)的次數(shù)還不夠多而已,只要努力,總有一天我們會做得更好。</p>
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		<p>在孩子碰到挫折時,別一上來就責(zé)備:“怎么這點(diǎn)小事都做不好?”你可以啟發(fā)孩子正向思考:“這次雖然不是太理想,但我相信你已經(jīng)很努力了。你有沒有學(xué)到什么有用的經(jīng)驗(yàn)?zāi)??”這樣一來,孩子就會逐步養(yǎng)成正向思維的習(xí)慣,碰到問題懂得先去思考正面的意義和價值,從而避免了負(fù)面情緒的干擾,有勇氣從挫折中走出來。</p>
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				父母應(yīng)常常用正向思維來影響和啟發(fā)孩子對事物的看法,同時給予孩子更多積極情緒與能量的傳遞。</section>
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		<p>比如寶寶摔倒了,積極樂觀的父母會保持關(guān)注,同時淡定微笑地張開懷抱鼓勵孩子,意思是“沒關(guān)系,寶寶自己可以爬起來的!”這個時候,孩子接收到的情緒能量就是勇氣與自信;而消極負(fù)面的父母可能就會第一時間驚慌失措地跑過去大聲追問“怎么樣,有沒有摔到?嚇?biāo)缷寢屃?!”毫無疑問,這種情況下孩子接收到的情緒能量就是恐懼與脆弱。</p>
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					<p class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" style="line-height: 22px; font-size: 18px;">原因二:過度自尊和敏感</p>
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		<p>這類孩子特別要面子,過于在意別人的評價與反饋,活在“別人的眼光”中,所以,他們會尤其害怕失敗,其實(shí)是害怕失敗會帶來別人的批評與否定,比如父母、老師、同學(xué)、親戚朋友等。</p>
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							<p>對策:引導(dǎo)孩子活出自我。</p>
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		<p>對于這類孩子,我們首先要做的是接納孩子的失敗、接納孩子因?yàn)槭《鸬娜魏畏磻?yīng),不要過多評價和議論失敗本身,尤其不要給孩子貼負(fù)面標(biāo)簽,諸如指責(zé)其“膽小”、“輸不起”之類,讓他感覺到失敗其實(shí)并沒有讓大家對他因此而產(chǎn)生任何負(fù)面想法,大家并沒有把他的所謂“失敗”放在心里。所以,在開頭我自己的案例中,在意識到藍(lán)藍(lán)對評價比較敏感之后,我就立刻停止了對她的“建議和提醒”。</p>
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		<p>其次,讓孩子明白失敗是很正常的事情,每個人都會有失敗的時候,不光是孩子,大人也不例外。你可以給他講講他身邊一些同齡人失敗的經(jīng)歷,甚至可以講講你當(dāng)年失敗的“糗事”,告訴他其實(shí)爸爸媽媽很理解他。</p>
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		<p>最后,家長必須經(jīng)常引導(dǎo)孩子在實(shí)踐中看到自己的優(yōu)點(diǎn),無論是外在還是內(nèi)在,并適時加以鼓勵。這樣一來,孩子逐步就會明白,別人的眼光和評價其實(shí)并沒那么重要,我們不完美,但我們是世界上獨(dú)一無二的自己。</p>
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		<p>我曾經(jīng)給女兒讀過一本繪本《我就喜歡我自己》,青蛙弗洛格最終明白:我雖然不會像鴨子一樣飛,不會像小豬一樣做好吃的,不會像老鼠一樣做東西,也不會像野兔一樣讀書,但我會游泳,會跳躍,我的綠色是我最喜歡的顏色。我是一只很棒的青蛙!多么深刻的領(lǐng)悟!</p>
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				你的孩子長處在哪里?有什么優(yōu)點(diǎn)和可愛之處?孩子自己知道這些嗎?每個人都有長短優(yōu)劣,看到自己長處的人會接納和欣賞自己,而盯著自己短處的人勢必自卑和消極。</section>
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					<p class="135brush" data-brushtype="text" style="line-height: 22px; font-size: 18px;">原因三:經(jīng)驗(yàn)與能力不夠,進(jìn)而缺乏勇氣</p>
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		<p>除了心態(tài)上的原因,對孩子而言,很多時候失敗確實(shí)是因?yàn)樽陨砟挲g的關(guān)系,導(dǎo)致經(jīng)驗(yàn)與能力不夠,對事情沒有把握,進(jìn)而缺乏信心與勇氣。</p>
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							<p>對策:鼓勵和幫助孩子找到解決問題的辦法。</p>
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		<p>看到孩子遇到問題和挫折止步甚至退縮時,要想孩子積極面對,光靠簡單的鼓勵諸如“不怕,你一定可以的!”這類話語是遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)不夠的,父母應(yīng)該給予孩子適當(dāng)?shù)闹笇?dǎo)和幫助,幫助他克服心中的恐懼和擔(dān)心。</p>
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					<p style="line-height: 25.6px;">比如開頭我自己的案例中,我后續(xù)就試著慢慢告訴藍(lán)藍(lán)貼紙的基本原則,幫助她逐步貼紙的技巧,而有了幾次成功的經(jīng)驗(yàn)之后,她對貼紙的信心就大大增加,就算偶爾再沒貼好,也不會輕言放棄了。</p>
					<p style="line-height: 25.6px;">再比如,頭一次玩滑梯的孩子,不敢從高高的滑梯上下來,或者是第一次沒滑好不敢再繼續(xù),父母要怎么做呢?你可以告訴孩子,咱們第一次玩,不知道怎么玩、玩不好都沒關(guān)系,我們先看看別人是怎么玩的?帶著孩子邊看邊對玩滑梯的要領(lǐng)做個總結(jié),比如身體要坐直,手要左右分開搭在兩邊扶手上,腿要伸直。等孩子看幾遍明白了大概之后,如果還不敢行動,你可以親自示范幾次,然后就可以在滑梯下頭,展開你的懷抱,鼓勵孩子滑下來。</p>
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		<p>這樣一來,孩子慢慢就會知道,碰到困難時不用擔(dān)心和逃避,因?yàn)樗梢酝ㄟ^自己的觀察、思考和學(xué)習(xí)、嘗試等,去逐步克服困難。</p>
		<p>除以上三點(diǎn)之外,給予孩子更多高質(zhì)量的陪伴,多給孩子一點(diǎn)自由和獨(dú)立自主的權(quán)利,給孩子*更多開闊眼界、增長見識的機(jī)會,引導(dǎo)孩子培養(yǎng)一點(diǎn)興趣愛好,鼓勵孩子多交朋友等,都有助于增強(qiáng)孩子的自信與底氣,在面對挫折時能更快地排解壓力、重整旗鼓。</p>
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		<p>最后特別要提醒大家的是,挫折教育千萬不要“矯枉過正”。有些父母甚至還會特意給孩子*一些“挫折”來磨練孩子,但事實(shí)上,孩子的抗挫折能力根本不需要刻意而為之,對于孩子而言,從出生到長大,本身就是一個充滿挑戰(zhàn)和挫折的過程。你只需要幫助孩子處理好他生命中的每一次或大或小的挑戰(zhàn)與挫折,小到一次喝奶、一次摔跤、一次*,大到一次批評、一次考試失利、一次比賽淘汰等,讓孩子從中習(xí)得營養(yǎng)與力量,就已經(jīng)足夠了。</p>
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